Okay...she is sleeping and I have to say I have never blogged and really feel I don't have time for much computer stuff except organizing and archhiving pictures, answering email, and shopping so I don't have to do as many errands BUT my need to keep connected to my most incredibel friends lured ( you will all just have to deal with my horrible spellinga nd typing- I am not willing to go back and proof and I am not a great typer, I'd rather just get it all out in the little time I have hope that is okay) me to check out this thing you started Meliss. I am going to participate.
My Best right now is moment to moment and giving credit for small accomplishements. ive decided to stop focussing on what I need to improve in myself and all the "self/wife/mother help" books I need to read and focus on what I am doing well. Maybe I will neve rpick up another self help book again- now that would be liberating!!! gotta go put bak in the pacifier..okay back. So my best for this morning was that Stella and I got out and did a great walk and I listened to Joel Olsten on my ipod and was encouraged. I need to go do some pumping. Meliss- thanks for the reminder to this site and thanks for starting it.
4 comments:
Hi Lissee... you made me smile and I and so happy that you are focusing on what you do well everyday. I am sure that the more you identify the positives, the more you will find to identify. You do so much all the time. I am very impressed with you and all you do as wife, mother, girlfriend, daughter, etc., not to mention working woman. Stay positive I know these are exhausting days for sure. Love you oxoxox
Oh yeah.. I don't look very different from the last time you saw me.. but I hope it will continue to change. I'm glad we are in it all together ox
Lulu, You are being the best by attempting to stay in the moment, find joy in the littlest of things they can later seem so huge...and really I am happy to see you let up on yourself a bit...we have so much in common and then are polar opposites. I have never picked up a self help book in my life and maybe it is because I don't want to look too hard or maybe because most of the time I feel pretty satisfied with my life. Ignorance is bliss right? I love and miss you, hang in there my friend you are doing great!
Hey Lu - Thanks for the insight on our relationship with our husbands. It is true that isn't unconditional, what a shame huh? I too am trying to get past what about me? and look at all I do... it helps because Kyle is really trying and I see such a difference since my dad died in him. He is trying to live up to some of the things my dad would have asked of him I think... well I have Kyle's mom here and the 3 of us are sorta watching a movie...I am trying to get back here daily but it doesn't always work :)T
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